Finding Flow: How Goal-Setting Helps Tame the Chaos of Your Mind
- Renee Roth
- Jun 8
- 3 min read

Have you ever felt completely absorbed in something—like you lost track of time, forgot to check your phone, and emerged hours later both fulfilled and buzzing with energy? That’s what psychologists call flow—a peak state of engagement where everything just clicks. But reaching this state can feel elusive, especially when our minds are tangled in distractions, self-doubt, or uncertainty.
Let’s unpack how you can manage psychic entropy (a fancy term for mental chaos) and design your goals in a way that consistently nudges you into that magical state of flow.
What Exactly Is Psychic Entropy?
Psychic entropy is what happens when your attention is fragmented. You’re trying to write an email, but you’re also worrying about dinner, that awkward meeting yesterday, and whether you should be doing something else. This internal static clutters the mind, drains energy, and blocks the kind of focus needed for flow.
In short: psychic entropy is that nagging voice that keeps you from being fully present.
Goals: The Anchors That Cut Through the Noise
Enter: goals.
But not just any goals—clear, aligned, and compelling goals. The kind that don’t just live on your to-do list but feel like a challenge worth leaning into. When you set meaningful goals:
You reduce decision fatigue (because you know what matters).
You create a feedback loop (which makes progress visible).
You train your attention (because your brain now has a target).
This is where goal-setting becomes a psychic decluttering tool. You’re telling your mind: “This is the signal. Everything else? That’s noise.”
Cognitive Flow Loves a Good Challenge
Flow doesn’t happen when things are too easy or too hard. It needs that sweet spot: where your skills are just enough to meet the demands of the task. Think of it like a tightrope—if it’s too taut (too difficult), you fall from stress. Too loose (too easy), and you fall from boredom.
Well-crafted goals are what help calibrate that tightrope.
By breaking big goals into smaller, well-matched challenges, you create stepping stones into flow. Each micro-goal becomes an entry point—something you can lose yourself in for 25 minutes, an hour, or an afternoon.
Designing Your Day for Flow
Here’s how to put all this into practice:
Set Clear Intentions in the Morning
Pick one meaningful goal for the day. Not ten. Just one.
Ask: If I only accomplish this today, will I feel satisfied?
Define the Flow Block
Block out uninterrupted time.
Set a challenge that slightly stretches you. (Not “answer emails”—more like “write the first draft of the pitch.”)
Neutralize Entropy
Identify what might pull your attention (e.g., phone, anxiety, clutter).
Build rituals to reset: a deep breath, clearing your desk, or writing down distracting thoughts to come back to later.
Celebrate Micro Wins
Flow is its own reward, but your brain loves closure.
At the end of your focus session, jot down what you achieved and how it felt.
Final Thought: Aim for Alignment, Not Perfection
You don’t have to be in flow 24/7 (that’s not realistic). But you can stack the deck in your favor. The more your goals align with what you value and challenge you just enough, the more often you’ll find yourself dropping into that deeply satisfying state.
So the next time your mind feels like a browser with 47 tabs open, ask: What goal can I focus on right now that clears the noise and invites me into flow?
You might be surprised how often the answer leads to clarity—and momentum.